When Neptune transits the 7th house your need for independence and imagination influences your one-to-one relationships. Neptune inspires new dreams and dissolves old structures and represents your need to spiritualise and refine this area of your life.
When Neptune transits the 7th house you may experience inspiration and confusion in your marriage or partnership, business enterprises, and dealings with therapists or consultants. Neptune reveals your illusions and self-deception so you can gain insight into yourself through your relationships. This isn’t easy because you can’t see yourself or the other person clearly due to your blurred boundaries.
You could meet someone with strong Neptunian qualities, such as an artist, musician or poet, or somebody who drinks or uses drugs – not necessarily an addict, but they could be – or someone evasive and mysterious or deceitful. You may need to take back your projections and recognise these qualities as parts of yourself.
You may idealise your partner and see them as the man or woman of your dreams, only to end up disillusioned when you realise that they’re not perfect. This gives you the opportunity to get to know the real person behind the image you’ve been projecting. You may also need to examine any unrealistic hopes or expectations you have so you can approach the other person without lying to yourself or them.
Your partner may need extra support because they’re having a hard time so you need to make sacrifices to help them. This may awaken your compassion and allow you to learn about the challenges of unconditional love. You could lose your partner due to divorce or death and need to grieve for what you’ve lost, whether somebody dies or not.
You may also need to deal with feelings of abandonment and anger that go back to childhood. Other emotional complexes could get you caught in a victim/saviour dynamic where you want to rescue someone or have them save or redeem you in some way. You may need to look within to find the kind of unconditional acceptance that’s really a search for the divine, your true Self.
You could actually meet your ideal partner and form a magical relationship that feels wonderful and fated. But real life will probably intrude eventually so it may not be a good idea to get married too quickly under this transit. Give yourself time to really get to know each other.
This transit can also influence your business partnerships and relationships you have with consultants, such as therapists. There may be confusion, deception, a lack of clear boundaries, or misunderstandings between you. So be careful with contracts and try to avoid getting involved in legal disputes because it might not work out well.
Possibilities with Neptune transiting the 7th House:
- Relationships with artistic or creative people
- Searching for your ideal partner
- Meeting your soul mate
- Embracing celibacy
- Developing stronger boundaries in relationships
- Learning to love in a more selfless way
Watch out for:
- Looking for redemption in relationships
- Unrequited love
- Disillusionment with relationships
- Loss of a partner due to divorce or death
- Boundary issues with therapists
- Legal disputes and complications
My Notes:
Neptune won’t make it this far into my chart. If you’ve had this transit, please share your experience in the comments below…
More Neptune Transits: 1st house / 2nd house / 3rd house / 4th house / 5th house / 6th house / 7th house / 8th house / 9th house / 10th house/ 11th house / 12th house / natal planets
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Jessica Davidson 
Neptune and Chiron are currently transiting my 7th house. Saturn, venus, mercury and my north node will soon be transiting my 7th house. I have Saturn in my natal 5th house. I also have Venus square Saturn and Venus square Chiron. I’m 33 and I barely had a real relationship. All of my relationships ended with the person moving on with someone else. I fell for love bombing too many times and loved way too soon. I will love to be married to someone that loves me genuinely and could make me feel safe and give me that soft life. I have learnt too many lessons on detachment and having to let go and watch others move on from me. I just feel like I deserve a happily ever after. I would hate to experience disillusionment and unrequited love again.
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With all that activity in your 7th house you’re sure to see some change over the coming years. It’s up to you to make that a positive change by exploring what these transits bring up for you. Give it time – you’ll get there!
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comenzando el. Transito de neptuno en mi casa 7 y la verdad tengo miedo por qué no quiero relaciones de dependencia no quiero rescatar a nadie, no quiero sufrir acabo de pasar por una separación y ha sido difícil y no quiero pasar por lo mismo, no quiero que se aprovechen de mi. He conocido muchas personas en estos últimos meses no sé si también es por Plutón transitando la casa 5. Muchos de esas personas son hombres pretendiendome pero muchos son casados otros los considero muy rotos por el tipo de experiencias que han vivido con sus ex parejas y yo no soy terapeuta para ayudarles a sanar por lo tanto me he alejado de ellos. Estoy viéndome con una persona que la verdad es confuso y no me quisiera enamorar así que voy despacio le daré un tiempo talvez puedo ver todo con mayor claridad y decidir si sigo o no. Me llama mucho la atención el hecho de conocer al amor de mi alma no sé si lo conoceré pero como repito esto está comenzando.
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Thanks for sharing this Marcela. Maybe this transit will be an opportunity to heal your heart and get ready for the love of your life. You never know! Good luck!
Google Translate: “starting on. Neptune transits in my 7th house and the truth is I’m scared because I don’t want dependent relationships, I don’t want to rescue anyone, I don’t want to suffer, I just went through a separation and it has been difficult and I don’t want to go through the same thing, I don’t want to be taken advantage of. I have met many people in these last few months, I don’t know if it’s also because of Pluto transiting the 5th house. Many of those people are men pretending to me but many are married, others I consider very broken because of the type of experiences they have lived with their ex-partners and I am not a therapist to help them heal therefore I have distanced myself from them. I am seeing a person who the truth is confusing and I would not like to fall in love so I am going slowly, I will give it some time maybe I can see everything more clearly and decide whether to continue or not. I am very struck by the fact of meeting the love of my soul, I don’t know if I will meet him but as I repeat this is just beginning.”
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At the beginning of this transit, I became heavily involved with several different artistic communities and hopped from group to group of creative and talented people. I also found my soul mate and married him in a span of 4 years, whereafter I learned what it feels like to have rose-tinted glasses fall away from me. Fortunately, he’s a wonderful man regardless of my unreasonable expectations, and we have worked things out as they come throughout the years.
But in the latter half of the decade, I became disillusioned with many of my former friends and communities and fell away from them one after the other. In 2020, I had a traumatic break from a long-established friend group because of my disillusionment with them and am now nearly friendless but more in sync with myself than ever. I realized the level of self-repression and self-hatred I’ve always had for certain parts of myself and I’m finally learning to accept those parts and better recognize my boundaries and what I need from other people, and not to settle for toxic associations just because they feel familiar. My marriage has also become stronger and I learned the meaning of unconditional love. I’ve also realized I’m likely demisexual.
Finally, in the last couple of years, I became involved with legal proceedings regarding a family member that shattered my entire family and unearthed a pandora’s box of repressed childhood trauma. Because of that, I sought out a therapist for the first time in my life.
So yeah, this page really struck a chord in me!
Thank you for the insight.
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totally giving up on relationships. idk if that’s just nep in 7, and 8. till about last week, which included transits to uranus, chiron,in 8 sun, pluto, moon, saturn, and mercury. and saturn transiting everything in my chart, and all the others these last few years, mass transit. idk what’s what. with nep moving into 7 sat in 8 and pluto ccon mars/venus seems the main thing. idk how to tell re neptune in 7 which was the first decade of this century, essentially. lost in fog ?! :)
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Hi –
Thank you for this post. I was wondering about neptune opposite sun which I just finished as Virgo 22degrees.?
Feel like everything’s gone/over!
Thank you,
Virginia Wilson
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Yes, it can feel like that! I’ll be running posts covering Neptune transits to the planets after the houses are finished later in July – so watch this space…
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My natal Neptune is 7th house, I an’t speak about transit, but the influence on ‘ your business partnerships and relationships you have with consultants, such as therapists. There may be confusion, deception, a lack of clear boundaries, or misunderstandings between you. So be careful with contracts and try to avoid getting involved in legal disputes because it might not work out well.’ is right on target.
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Thanks for sharing your experience, Sara – hope it hasn’t given you too much difficulty.
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The first and only time I went to a professional astrologer for a reading he told me ‘your chart is the kind that breaks people’ as I walked in the door. As we were winding up the reading, he said, ‘You are one of the few people I’ve come across that has worked with your chart. Usually I have to argue for the stars.’ I had to laugh because the way to survive a chart like mine IS by understanding the flow and patterns of its energetics. The experience did make me leery of astrologers that present them selves as therapists…typical 7th house neptune, right?
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